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family fighting
my family is fighting alot lately. Ever since my aunt died (april 8) :( my dad has been smoking alot more, which isnt good. He trys to quit, but it doesnt work. Also like everyone just gets mad at everyone alot now and idk what to do
Ideas to make my family happyer?
We all miss my aunt alot, she was really close to us. But idk why is my family acting this way, so am i and i dont even know why. I think most of it is me, i dont know, but i always get mad at the simpilest things with my parents.
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I think you are right- your loss has probably triggered something inside your family. This is a tough question to answer, and this is the best I have. Just love them. You can talk things over when you're ready, but realize that this is not a normal thing for your family and it will probably not continue to be. But don't let it. The change can start with you. Pay attention to how you treat the members of your family and do good things for them. It will make you all feel better. I'm sorry for your loss and I hope your family can heal soon.
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You should call a family meeting and sit around together and set out a bunch of pics or something that reminds you of your aunt. Remanise the days everyone had with her. Grief shouldn't overcome your life. Losing a loved one is hard, but if you remember her you'll feel better. If your family continues to fight, get out of the house for a while. Stay at a friends or something. Talk to somebody about your grief. Talking helps better than action.
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You should all take a carefree vacation to the beach, or someplace peaceful. It will take your minds off regular life for a while.
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