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my 2 best friends r goin out.
My best friend is dating my other best friend which is also the guy I like.She knows I like him but she's going out with him anyways.Now shes mad at me because she thinks im mad at her and no matter what I say to her she wont listen. What do I do? I am 13 years old and female
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She's mad because she thinks you're mad? Well maybe you're not mad, but you're definitely jealous.
Just because you like a guy doesn't mean that she can't date him. I mean, it may be common courtesy, but you need to be mature about this, and realize that being jealous and mad isn't going to do anything or solve problems.
Talk to your friend, as much as she won't listen to you, and tell her how you feel. Say something other than "I'm not mad," because we both know that's not the truth. Tell her how you feel.
She IS your best friend, and if you can't talk to her about things, then you probably aren't really best friends.
--Jack
(17/m)
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:[ that's a sucky situation, but I've been there and done thaat haha. so here it goes, sometimes people just need to cool off. and if you give her some space, like maybe a little while of not talking to her, she'll come to her senses. If she won't listen to you, either make her or just let it go and let her come to YOU. Because obviously, you haven't done anything wrong, she probably feels pretty guitly that she's going out with the guy you like, so by not wanting to cause a problem, she ignores what you say or makes it an even BIGGER deal than it actually is because she doesn't know how to handle it. If she thinks youre mad at her, she might just want an excuse so she can say something like, "you have no right to be mad at me..." so that she can be mad at you too. and even when you tell her that you're not mad, she doesn't believe you or chooses not to listen, then thats her immature problem. You're only 13, don't worry about it, this will pass, you'll find another guy and she eventually will too. so don't let this little thing ruin your friendship. just let her cool off and give her some space. Maybe also talk to the guy [your best friend] who she's going out with. talk to him about the situation and he could talk to her, and it might knock some sense into her. Just be nice and everything will be okay, I promise :]
good luck and don't sweat it, it'll work itself out in no time :] ! hope i helped, and if you need anything else, feel free to inbox me, xxo.
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ohhh 13 year old drama. she'll get over it, trust me. just be nice to her.
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