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my boyfriend and i live very far apart. a while back i introduced him to a friend. while i was in a group home, he cheated on me with her, and once when i got back. we have been off and on the past year. and before that we were together 3 years. i go on his myspace to make sure she don't leave him comments. and i leave him one. he had her on his top friends for a while, and finally took her off completely cuz i made him. im worried she is going to do something to mine and his relationship again. how can i get her to leave his and my relationship alone and get him to stay away from her.
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wow you derserve soo much better. if hes gonna hook up with one of your friends then why would you want to be with a guy thats gonna treat you like that? yeahh i would be extremely mad at the girl who did this to you..but its him you need to be mad at..im sooo sorry that this happened to you. please keep me updated id love to see what happens =]
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It doesn't matter who initiated the cheating -- the both of them went along with it & acted on it. So don't just blame her. Your boyfriend did it too.
If they're going to do things, then it's gonna happen & you can't stop it. Just stop your worrying by breaking up with him. He's proved that he can't be faithful, so why does he deserve this chance? He'll probably do it again, so just end it now before you get hurt again.
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The problem is not her...it's him. The fact that you remain talking to this guy after cheating on you twice is a little disturbing. He'll just do it again and again. HE is the one doing this to you. HE is the cheater and not worth your time. She's just the other woman. I'd leave him. He's obviously too immature to be in a mature relationship.
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Realistically, you can't stop them. If they are going to screw around, they're going to do so. Weather or not you made him remove her from his buddy list or not.
Number one, there are many other means for them to communicate if they want to.
Number two, you live far apart, so you have no real means of keeping track of his behavior.
If I were in your shoes, I would find someone who treats me with the respect I deserve and move on. Why stick with a guy you can't trust? The key factors in a healthy relationship is trust and honesty. He has broken your trust, and you can't get past that, so your relationship is unhealthy and no longer worth your time and effort.
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