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Worried about friends
Ok I go to a private school, lets call it H and recently I made some big mistakes and since H is such a small scholl practically my whole grade knows this. And there are a couple of people there that still hang out with me and seem to like me, but even though those people are great friends and I love them as friends, I really care about this one group of friends, lets call them D, and thats where my whole mistake started, I cussed at them online because I was in a really bad mood that day and some things have happened, anyway it was a stupid thing to do I know that and I'll never do it again but like I said I really care about my D friends, and I want them to realize it was all a horrible mistake and I still ove them. Right now D hates me and is spreading rumors about me I think but you can't expect to cuss someone out online and get away with it can you? anyway I want to know how I can make it up to them and explain things in the best way.
(Don't say tell them that you just had a bad day and you still love them because even though this is true I already told them this and apologized alot of times.)
Thanks in advance! :) sorry it's long
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Hi, you should definetly apologize and ask for forgiveness but you don't have to beg. If D can't understand that you love em ,mayb then they don't deserve your apology. I would ignore those rumors and have fun with the true friends i still have. the couple of frieds you do hang out with you should love the and have fun with them.You shouldn't care about those rumors. Your real friends would help you through it. Remember i'm always here to help lol
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Yes, you are right in your thinking that you can't expect to cuss someone and get away with it. HOWEVER. Them going around and starting rumors about you is a tad bit extreme, don't you think?
Let's be realistic, here. Are they TRULY friends worth all of your trouble and efforts if they are just going to be unforgiving, hateful, and spreading lies about you?
Weather you cussed them or not, there is still no call for such behavior out of them. Yah, I can see them being royally pissed with you, but to act like that? Come, now.
I think you deserve better friends than that.
ygs-29/f
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Hey, well it already seems like you spilled your heart out to "D" and apologized many times. Most friends would just forgive you at a point when you keep repeating an apology. Are you sure that it was just that? Is that all you did? If so, "D" is making a bigger deal out of the situation than necessary. If there willing to let something as little as thing ruin your friendship, they dont understand the real meaning of friendship nor care.
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