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Sharing the bed
Friends share the bed with one another, sometimes. But when that happens to the person you told that you like them more than a friend it is hard to understand there side. What I mean is that I told my friend about myself and I was expressing my feelings to her. she said she not feel the same about me and she not ready for any relationship and not sure what gender she is interested. And I ‘m a women who found out that I am Bi and she the first person I told her. She was there to understand and I was glad she is and a great friend, I'm not ready for a relationship too (with a women.) We had my birthday party at my apartment we all started to watch TV in my room when the party was over. Me and my friend Sara sat on the bed as my other two gal friends sat on the 2nd bed that is the bed mattress under the day bed I was sitting on. I told my friends that one can sleep on the 2nd bed as two sleep on the floor. As the movie ended Sara stay on the bed with me as I lay down she lay down too, but my feet was to her head as her feet to my head. I told her that I might kick her as I slept she said "so what , I kick u back." Now It got me confused about her, she is a touchy close person to me and now she does THIS! Why is that? It might not mean anything but I just need a second understanding.
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Maybe give some free advice about: Friendship?
if she's not sure, she might just be playful and stuff.
i wouldn't call what happened flirting or anything.
she still sees you as a friend, therefore it would be no problem sharing a bed with you.
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She meant what she said.
She doesn't know what gender she's interested in, and isn't looking for a relationship. And if you were to kick her in your sleep, she'd kick you back.
There's nothing to understand but exactly what she said.
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I think Sara still wants to be your friend, and assumes that you can still be friends. She told you once that she didn't think of you that way, but she still values your friendship. I am not saying that she won't change her mind, but she needs to be the one to make the first move. Don't make it, or you will ruin your friendship, and you won't see her at all.
This is what love is about, sometimes we cannot have the person we want, and it is hard. But I can tell you that many people have forced the person they care about into and "ultimatum". "If we can't be lover's then I don't want to see you at all", And then that is exactly what happens. The person leaves and is out of their life completely. And then the person who is in love, regrets it. So be prepared if you persue this, that you may push her away completely.
I hope this helps.
Michele
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