ok. so i'm 14/f. and i really feel like i have no friends. like, people are nice to me, but i don't feel like i have someone who i can really talk to. and i don't want to talk to my parents about stuff that i would talk to my friends with of course. i have a half-sister that is really easy to talk to, but she works like ALL of the time, and she lives like, 3 hours away. i feel like everytime i get a friend, i loose them. and i feel like if i was in a group of girls and a different group of girls had to be picked out to hang out with, i would be last picked. or, sometimes i feel like i'm a last resort. what i mean is, one time, one of my really good friends called me and asked if i wanted to go shopping, and i was like "sure!!" and we went to the mall and were shopping and stuff, and i said, "we should have seen if so and so could have come too" and my friend said "yeah, i called her first, but she wasn't there" and i was like "oh". ya know what i mean??? so my question is, do you really have to have friends to get through life? i'm going to be going into high school this coming year, so will i make friends who i can actually keep around???? i need help!!!! thanks.
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Friendship? SxExAxNx answered Thursday June 7 2007, 3:57 am: hmm...well friends do help you get through life and the only way to make them is to meet people. i would suggest getting yourself out there, maybe do something big that people will talk about. youll get your name out and gradually talk to people. nothing too big of course, just something that gets you into peoples minds. then you can just hang around with some of the people you talk to and build a friendship off of that. and if you ever need somethin ill be your friend lol, you can find me on AIM and facebook(info on my column) unless you dont want to of course. good luck, hope it works out [ SxExAxNx's advice column | Ask SxExAxNx A Question ]
Israelb13 answered Thursday June 7 2007, 1:41 am: i will also be youre freind just go to my website and email me or add on my myspace if you have one its myspace.com/1clowny3 but i dont want you to think im being youre freind because the other person did but because im a nice guy if you dont want to be my freind ill understand [ Israelb13's advice column | Ask Israelb13 A Question ]
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