Depressed_Poet answered Sunday June 24 2007, 11:28 am: In the Bible it states that having sex before you're married, even if you plan to BE married, is wrong. If you are willing to get engaged with someone, you should both be willing to wait for HoneyMoon or Wedding night, right? Sorry if I'm being too graphic; but that way you have something special between the two of you. There may be other branches of Christianity that allow it, but are somewhat wishy-washy. If they're Christians, they know the bible. And IN the bible it says to be married before losing your virginity. That pretty much says it all.
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jazzifizzle answered Thursday June 7 2007, 1:58 pm: you shouldnt have premarital sex, not only for religion, but for saftey. You never know what could happen between now and your marrige that might split you apart. Once you're tied by a legal bond...enjoy yourself. I happen to be a Pentacostal Christian and this branch tends to be a little strict so the way i was brought up might be a little biased. Just...think of the consequences before you act. That's the best advice i can give you.
mylordwon answered Wednesday June 6 2007, 10:13 pm: God says sex outside of marriage between a man and a woman is wrong. Period. Any "branch" of so-called Christianity that says otherwise is not following the ways of God. God's Word is true. God never changes. He is the same yesterday, today, and forever.
The devil LOVES too appeal to our fleshly desires; to take something beautiful, like sex between a husband and wife, and distort it. Whether you're asking this question for your own information or to have something to stand on in an argument with someone else, here's the truth...You are worth waiting for. Period. [ mylordwon's advice column | Ask mylordwon A Question ]
Dunnworryjuzdoit answered Wednesday June 6 2007, 5:38 pm: Sex is okay as long as you're in a loving and committed relationship, and you're smart about it (protect yourself.) God expects us to have sex,we are mammals, and you dont see the animal world having to stand before an alter in order to "do it" Gods not going to punish you for doing what is in you instinct. It is also okay to be religious and have your own beliefs about God instead of complying to what someone tells you you should believe. I love God and I know he put us on this earth to live life and learn from it. He didn't give us these desires if he was only going to punish us for them, I don't think God is really that hateful, he loves us and most of all he's all about forgiving not condemning. Nonetheless, he didn't create marriage, the church did, God put us on this earth and obviously he expected that we continue the human population or else what would be the point. Most of all, God want us to enjoy life and sex is enjoyable if you're are smart about it and don't abuse the privilege (don't become a slut and protect yourself from becoming pregnant if you're not ready to have a kid). ON top of that, would you really want to marry someone and they end up sucking in bed or they do some really wierd groaning or cry when its all over, or something else that is a complete turn off and then your stuck with him the rest of your life and you miss out on the good stuff? That's not fair and Im sure God wouldn't want to see you suffer. [ Dunnworryjuzdoit's advice column | Ask Dunnworryjuzdoit A Question ]
xjessikahxmx09 answered Wednesday June 6 2007, 5:14 pm: hmph, maybey in like a colt.
besides that, every religion that
involves god believes premarital
sex is wrong.. including while youre
engaged, because thats not married.
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