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flirting
What is good flirting ways with a boy your not really close with but like alot.
Touching ones ( not sexual) just like on the arm and stuff
and ones that you dont like have body contact
Also what are some good flirting ways with a boy your kind of close to and like a little.
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The best way to flirt is to make it not obvious but make him intrigued by who you are. Flirting really isn't a set of rules, it should come naturally. In other words, if you're into him, then you know that awesome feeling of giddiness and excitement that you feel will come through on its own (flirtiness)but control all that excitement at the same time, too much might scare him into something he's not ready for. Let him come to you. You'll know the difference in how you feel with him and the way you act than how you are with anyone else. Its just something you naturally develop, it's called game. Classy is being sexy and seductive in a mysterious way. Never show too much. Putting it on display isn't going to make him want what you have if he already sees what you have to offer without ever having to pursue it. A man wants most what he can't have. Don't be fooled, a guy likes a girl who can stand on her own two feet and has dignity and respect for herself. Being willing to give too much too fast puts you in a slut category NOT the permanent girlfriend category...sluts dont have respect for themselves therefore they're not given respect by men, they're used only for quick fixes and nothing else. So, remember to alway have integrity and make him see the wonderful qualities of a good girlfriend you have in you. They also enjoy intelligence, twirling your hair and biting your lips are only going to make you look like you're trying too hard...and you wouldn't want that. Also, please don't find out his favorite song and then pretend that you're into it if you're really not. You can't fake a personality forever...BE YOURSELF. If someone's going to love you then it's going to be for who you really are and not what you appear to be. A relationship and even a friendship will fail if you believe you met a certain type of person that has the same interests only to find out later that they are not who you thought they were and don't really like doing the same things. The most meaningful and long lasting relationships come from real friendships. That means get to know him first as a friend, that way you'll be able to see if he is good boyfriend potential and if you guys are really compatible. If you don't know the guy yet, and you notice a hot boy OUT OF THE CORNER OF YOUR EYE (wink wink) that he's checking you out, glance over (not for too long), make eye contact, smile (without your teeth showing) and look away. That's all you need to make them want to come over to you and find out what you're all about. Good luck.
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If you're not close to them at all, find out their favorite type of music, then casually bring it up next time you talk. Talk to him more on Myspace or AIM, if you have one. Don't be touchy, be friendly, and cool. You want be classy, not over the top. And of course there are the little things that turn the heat up, like twirling your hair, and biting your lip, and laughing. Be confident in yourself and secure about what you're doing.
If you're kind of close, basically do the same thing, but find more to talk about so you know if you two have more in common. Plus, if you're already friends with them, you're open to invite them to the movies, or call them up because you'll be more comfortable around each other.
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