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Should I break up with him?


Question Posted Tuesday May 29 2007, 5:29 pm

im pretty sure my boyfriend likes this other girl. i know she likes him and he knows it too. he talks to her all the time and i always catch him staring at her and trying to catch her eye. i told him that if he likes her, he should break up with me. but he gets mad and says he doesnt like her, that he loves me and doesnt want to break up. its so confusing! i just know he likes her, so why doesnt he just break up with me? sometimes i think i should just break up with him, but i feel like HE should be the one to break up, becuz first of all i dont want to (i really love him), and second of all if i break up with him i know he'll go out with her and that would just about kill me (i know, id have to just deal with it, but still). i just dont understand why he keeps saying he loves me when its obvious he likes someone else. why would he do that?

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DefyingOctober answered Tuesday May 29 2007, 6:13 pm:
give him an altamatum...
he can have you or your friend.
or you can sit down and straight out tell him that your unconfortable with him around your friend because you think he likes her. then tell him you want things to work out between you guys, and that will explain everything. and if he really wants to be with you, he will be less flirty with your friend

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KellyHappy answered Tuesday May 29 2007, 5:54 pm:
guys usually like more than one girl at a time, well, the normal guys anyways. usually they like many and hope one works out. but theres always one girl that the guy has the strongest feelings for, adn its obviously you. he might have a little minicrush or w/e on this other chick. but if he does love you like he says he does, then itll go away. so its quite alright, and im sure that it will go away. so dont worry. =D

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XJellybeanx03 answered Tuesday May 29 2007, 5:53 pm:
I hate to say this but i think
you should break up with him

you are worried about him and
the other girl alot and if there is
no trust in a relationship then it shouldnt be worth your time.

Guys don't know what the hell they
want one day they will like one girl
and then other day they will like someone
else don't worry as boys get older this will change.

Hope i helped :]

~Jenna~

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