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boyfriend problems.
im 15/f hes 15/m
okay so sometimes i like him..
sometimes i dont. but when i like him i LOVE him so much and think hes the greatest guy in the whole world. sometimes i just get annoyed with him or i feel like im not attracted to him anymore. what should i do?
p.s. weve been going out for almost a year
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oOo lordy gurl i could ryte a book on that feelin haha..i wuz dealin wid that same krap wid mi last b/f *&* we went out 4 a year *&* a half :p..it got 2 tha point when i had them momentz that i didnt like him..i wuz just soOo mean 2 him n all n i felt bad bout so i finally wuz like u know what 4git all this..id rather be single *&* happy than taken *&* miserable :-/..so i dumped him about 2 monthz ago *&* ive been havin soOo much fun cauz now i can do w/e i want..im just tellin u how i went about it..itz just an option ya know =]
-CARO
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Most relationships go through phases.
Just ask yourself which feeling is stronger:
when you like him
or when you don't
If the liking him feeling is stronger than stay with him for the moment until that changes
hope I helped!
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If that's really how you feel, then it's not love. It's infactuation. Maybe it's time to move it. After all, you are only 15, there are plenty of boys in the sea. Even ones you'll think are cute ALL the time lol.
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hey
well... i don't think you LOVE him if you stop liking him sometimes and like him a lot other times. you just really really like him, that's all :]
anyway, if he REALLY REALLY REALLY likes you a LOT like he would die without you, i wouldn't break up with him right now just to see how it turns out. maybe you should consult him about why you sometimes aren't attracted to him. like is it something he does / says? let him know so he can improve on that and keep the relationship steady.
if he likes you, but that's all, like he doesn't buy you excessive amounts of gifts, etc. then i'd break up with him. cause when you REALLY start not liking him for extended periods of time, he will be really heartbroken for not knowing that you didn't like him. it would just hurt him more.
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Well I think that its a bad sign that sometimes you don't like him. I thiink that if you're going to be in a relationship then you need to like him. Always. But its really up to you. Which feeling is stronger, the loving or the not liking? If its the not liking then i suggest breaking up with him
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Decide what you really want. Either you wanna be with him, forever, or you dont....
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