I was reading these things about friends being attached and its everything me and my best friend do except hes a guy but everyone thinks hes gay and he does look gay and he told me he doesn't really like anyone. hes had girlfriends before but he flirts with guys a lot and he'll tell me that they are cute and sexy. he doesn't believe in bisexuality either. Sometimes it seems like he likes me and I get it a lot from people and they think we are together.
Its really annoying cause I would never want to be with him like that.
Do you think he likes me more than a friend?
I'm not really sure.
thanks :]
I'm not sure how old you are, but like I said, if you're still in highschool, there is a good chance that your friend could be gay. Maybe he doesn't realize it yet, maybe he doesn't want to admit it. Especially since he is flirting with other guys and telling you they are cute and sexy, then he is definitely attracted to boys. You said he doesn't believe in being bisexuality, so the chance that he's gay is more likely than the chance that he's straight. So why did he have girlfriends? Well, he's either confused about which gender he likes and just wants to try things out. Or, he doesn't want people to know that he is really gay, so he goes out with girls to make it look less obvious.
Don't worry about people thinking you're a couple. You both know that you're not and that's all that matters. Me and a gay guy friend of mine are always being mistaken for a couple, but it doesn't bother us. And it shouldn't bother you either. Who cares what other people think?
Annasadvice answered Sunday May 27 2007, 11:01 am: Well If he flirts with other guys then you knows its something. Recognize if he does sports like basketball and the way he talks. Maybe distance away from him for A little while and see the way he reacts. Look on yahoo or www.dogpile.com and Find the definition for Gay. See If they give any results or qualitites of A gay person See if your friend shows any qualities then just watch your back on him. [ Annasadvice's advice column | Ask Annasadvice A Question ]
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