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What is your definition of skinny enough? And when someone says that to you are they implying that you were never skinny or that you were overweight before: Here is the story so you know what I am referring to: STORY: I am thin and A FEW DAYS AGO when I came home from work I changed into a tee-shirt but wore the same pants I wore to work. She asked me as I sat down to eat if I lost weight, and I said no, but this upset me. I said to her that she always tells me I look beautiful. She said you do look beautiful but your pants look bigger. And she told me that I am skinny enough.
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She's COMPLIMENTING you. Losing weight has nothing to do with looking beautiful. Pants looking big has nothing to do with losing weight. She's telling you that you are perfect just the way you are, and not to lose any more weight. Thin people don't need to lose weight. Skinny enough means that you look great.
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She wasn't saying that at all. What she was saying is, she doesn't want you to continue weight loss, she's worried you might have an eating disorder or something. She's saying you're perfect, and don't lose weight. "skinny enough" means that you're a good weight, don't lose more and don't gain. Stay there. You're perfect!
She wasn't saying you weren't beautiful, but losing more weight isn't going to make you prettier, it actually starts looking gross. Well, hope this helped! :)
Rose
PS- guys, its not the point of Advicenators to insult people's questions. Its rude, and hey, people probably think your questions are stupid too. Back off. and btw person- if you'd read the question, she wasn't asking if SHE was skinny, she was asking what the heck her mom said. Thats all. Okay, rant over. Thankies! :)
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you really need to stop posting questions like this. youre obviously skinny. you dont need to ask people if you are.
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