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Why is she embarrest?
Hello ,
Okay im not sure if it goes under the right category but okay. Im getting really mad at my friend because she wont go swimming ever. Shes to embarrest because she has hair on the sides of her vagina and she doesnt know how to get rid of it because she said she tried shaving but it didnt help is there anything else to get rid of it except for like bikini waxes or anything!?
Please help.
Thank youuu ,
Dianna.
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You should try talking to your mother or an older female adult you trust. Tell them that your friend refuses to go swimming with you because pubic hair tends to stick outside her suit. Explain what your friend has tried and see what they can come up with.
I think however, you should tell your friend to come over and bring a T-shirt with her and you'll lend her shorts. It's the perfect compromise and will easily hide any unwanted hair from showing. I cannot see her balking at that at all.
Tell her that even you wear shorts to swim from time to time. If it's your own private pool there should be nothing wrong with this idea.
If it's a public pool I can see why she's upset about it as they require people to wear proper bathing suits no exception. You should talk to your mom or another female adult and ask for advice.
As embarassing as it may seem for you, your friend maybe you can invite your friend swimming and tell her that you have the situation covered. Have your mom tell her how to take care of this in the future or have your mom in private explain to this kid's mother why she's so mortified of swimming with you.
Somebody has to say something to someone on how to deal with this situation without making a big deal out of it. However, getting her a pair of men's bathing shorts ought to fix the situation unless it's a public pool.
The girl clearly needs some tips from an older female who has dealt with this before or know how to help her. Aside from shaving or waxing the only other idea I would have is trying to trim the hair that sticks out of her bathing suit with scissors.
I myself don't know any way to fix it beyond that (being male) but if she can wear shorts she's fine unless she doesn't know how to swim at all ;) if it's just you, a few friends and your own backyard pool. In public she might not be able to get away with wearing shorts.
If she still refuses to come after you help her with the situation don't invite her again as she's being pretty silly about it especially if you help her figure out how to deal with this.
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she could wear surfing shorts..
or figure out how to shave.. or get nair
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If she doesn't want to do anything about it, maybe she can get a bathing suit with a shorts bottom like this:
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Not sure, But maybe she could try wearing water shorts for girls.
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