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I screwed up ... BAD.
Last year, one of my best friends, Diane, (we aren't friends anymore) told me that my other friend, Rachel, was just using a guy. She said Rachel told her that she just wanted to be popular and that she wanted him to buy her things, but she really didn't like him. Now the guy that she was going out with ... he was my best friend. So of course, I told him. Except he wouldn't believe me unless I said I was the one who heard her say it, so I just said that. They ended up breaking up. BUT, this year he was homeschooled and same for his sister, so I never got a chance to tell him what I found out. Diane had liked him and she apparently has some jealousy issues and she made all of that up. He possibly could be going to my school next year, so how do I fix this? I mean, he might just say, "Well, you shouldn't believe everything you hear," and get mad at me. What am I supossed to say to the guy?
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dont bother telling him that diane likes him and made it all up.Guys hate girls that talk about people behind their backs and you do that alot and its going to get alot of people against you.And rachels your freind too,you shoulda went and confronted her insteada talk about her and get her to lose the guy she loved!Just drop it and let it go.Dont start drama again next year,whats past is past just forget about it and stop talking about people so you dont get in trouble.If someone tells you something keep it a secret especially if its your freind.What goes around comes around you wouldnt like that happening to you.
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What makes you think you screwed up so bad? You made the right choice by telling him what was really going on, because you knew you'd feel bad if he found out on his own. When you go back to school, don't say anything to him. He will figure it out eventually, because she's not going to stay with him forever. He'll apologize if he thinks he should but right where the situation is standing now, there's really nothing more you can do.
Cherish,
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actually, you sould call him soon, instead of next year. better sooner than later. start off being like "i know you wouldn't like me to bring this up again,but i think you should know this.." and say what you told us. it could be that he moved on,but you never know. your one of his best friends,so you should tell him this,tell him whats going on while he's being homeschooled. he wont get mad if you're really close,i mean you didn't know,you were just telling him something you think he needed to know. and now is the time to tell him this thing. Dianes a bitch, if she knew you were close, she knew you would tell him (what rachel "said") so don't trust diane. you never know who to believe, or whos telling the truth,you just have to go with your gut sometimes. good luck & i hope i helped!
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