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Did I make the right choice about having a crush on my bffs
I've liked my bestfriends boyfriend since before she started to date him. And now after two months they broke up. In fact shes even going out with someone new again. So I have my chance to go out with him. And I took it. I told her and a lot of different people that I was only going out with him to hurt him, which I would never do. I even about convinced myself that I didn't even like him. Now he said he loved me and at first I was hesitant to say I love you too, but I said I love you. Everything would be great but I know its just not right to go out with your bff's ex, especially when she says she doesn't love him when she really does. Also summer vacation just let out and she is going to a new school next year so she'll probably never see him again but I will. I just want to know if you think I made the right decisions in what i did. and if you think otherwise don't be afraid to tell me becuase I don't want to make the same mistakes twice.
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i think that you should be able to date him.
if she really IS your bestfriend, she should let you date whomever you want, because she wants you to be happy. even if it is her ex boyfriend, she had her chance with him, and it didnt work out, so she should know it wont work again, and move on.
especially if shes dating someone else. and if she does still like this guy your going for, then she should break up with the guy shes dating because its not fair to him.
hope i helped. =D
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I would do whatever made me happy. If you like this guy, don't worry about your friend. She's got her own thing going on, so do what makes you feel good.
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honestly, i dont think its right for anyone to go out with their best friends exboyfriend. because believe me i know that even if your over the guy, it is a little awkward and well pretty annoying...really annoying. so unless the friend comes out and talks about omg i think he likes you and is all you know, girl, about it...like she doesnt care, then next time if this doesnt happen i would not go out with the ex. and if you do, dont lie about why your with him. because when people do that it only hurts other people more when they find out you were lieing. whether it was directly towards them or not.
xoxo helpachick
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