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my parents are having sex right now and i feel ...
im grossed out
i hear them moaning
and like they have no respect cuz my grammas funeral is tomorrow and like
what do i do
im scared
and i feeel like
idk
i mean i know its natual but like
it sounds ugh
help
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My advice; put on some loud music. Really loud. Really REALLY loud.
I know how it is! I live in a student house with 7 other people. You have no idea how many times I've heard gross noises coming from other peoples' rooms.
I'm sure they mean no disrespect to your grandmother. Sometimes sex just brings you closer to the other person, which could be something your parents need right now.
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How is your parents sex life disrespecting your grandmother? I mean, I'm sorry for your loss, but them having sex has nothing to do with her & you shouldn't take it as a disrespectful thing to her because it's not.
Anyways, just occupy your time with something else. Couples have sex, it's natural & you can't blame anyone for wanting to. If it bothers you, maybe when they're done or whatever you could just tell them to make sure you're out of the house or you're sleeping or whatever.
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your probably thinking that its wrong for them to be having sex; they probably feel more connected, and emotionally healed from having sex.
Parents are rather disrespectful; they moan when they can hear you having sex; they see it as wrong and insensative; but they dont care when the tables are turned.
Put your headphones on, with some music; or shame them by moving about the house loudly.
im sorry i cant say much more!!
charming ashlie
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Just turn the TV up louder or go outside and call up a friend or close relative, maybe go visit the neighbors.
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Just stop thinking about it. Really, it's a totally normal thing for a married couple to do. You're here, right? :)
Put on some music and tune them out. Don't give them a hard time about their timing- I wouldn't consider their behavior disrespectful to your grandmother.
I'm sorry for your loss, as well.
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