This guy I like is completely opposite from me. We flirt and make fun of each other but that's about it. I want to get to know him and get him to like me. I tried to open up to him.. but I don't think he gets it. We're hanging out this weekend [its not a date] and I was wondering if there's any ideas that I can do for him to open up and let me know him better and he can know me as well?? and anything me and him can talk about?
he said he doesn't like me but we made out and stuff. its confusing I know. it confuses me too. I'm not sure what to do with him Whether I should just give up or give it more time?
HELP ME. I really really like him. thnxx in advance.
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? crazyme6 answered Wednesday May 23 2007, 12:32 am: well first off if he made out with you but says he doesnt like you you need to talk to him about that cause he could be using you which is wrong! its probably hard for him to express how he feels..alot of guys are like that..start with small talk then ask him questions about his views on things..maybe what he wants to be when he grows up and just try to get into conversations where you both can find out more about each other than just basics..relax and have fun and show him that youre not going to judge him..he'll ease up over time as he get to knows you..dont give up! if he wants to hang out with you then he obviously is interested..so just let things flow and maybe feelings will develop between both of yall..just dont push it too hard sometimes its easier to relax and not try too hard..and dont come on too strong..its much easier to be friends at first so he can be comfortable..i'm sure itll all work out good luck! (and if for any reason he makes out with you again but STILL says he doesnt like you i would rethink trying to be with this guy..he could be a manwhore and you need to let him know you have selfrespect) whoo my answer was long ahhaha sorry! [ crazyme6's advice column | Ask crazyme6 A Question ]
mimzy3 answered Tuesday May 22 2007, 9:21 pm: On your get together play the question game. You ask a question, you both will answer it, and then he will ask the question. This may give you some similarities. Also, you can make inside jokes and talk to him about them in school and such. Show your personality so he can really decide if he likes you or not.
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