|
mother issues
okay so for the past 2 months my mom has been yelling and almost getting violent... not just like a normal parent but crazy... really. and the things that she gets mad over are things that she blames on other people, like me and my sister not cleaning the house for 6 hours on the weekend because she wouldn't (not couldn't) give us a ride from our father's ever to her house. Then tonight i went to my friends house, she said she'd be there at 10:30 so at 10:16 i go outside to find that my mom's not there, i call her and she's really really pissed off because i wasn't out at 10... but she has a history of always being late... anyway then in the car she tells me that it's all my fault because i didn't come out in time, not that she could've knocked on the door or anything...
my dad thninks that she's been drinking too much (and i do keep on finding empty bottles of alcohal) but i don't think that's it.
and i have talked to her about it, she just starts yelling... i really don't know what to do... it's starting to effect the way i act around my friends (usually i'm really good at hiding my home life issues) but everyday i'm afraid to go home.
so what can i do? how can i handle this? Thank you in advance
[ ]
Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category?
Maybe give some free advice about: Families?
How have you been talking to your mom? If you've been yelling, and getting an attitude, nothing's going to change. Be calm about this with your mother. Maybe see if you can live with your dad if things don't get better. You obviously don't feel safe living with your mom & that's not good..Talk to a trusted adult at school, and stay out of your mom's way at home. Clean the house, do whatever you need to do, and then just be good.
]
wow sound's like a harsh mom. If she's drinking that might have something to do with it , i know when my mom gets drunk shes mean :/ and if shes mean to you thats one thing, but if she touches you thats diffrent. See me , i'm the type of person that don't care when appoached in a ignorant situation. So if my mom hit me , i would hit her back , espeacially if she was drinking. [ which my mom does alot ]. sometimes i actually wish she wasnt my mom. anyways back to you, i would go to a school couselor if your mom , really wont talk to you about it.
THIS IS WHAT YOU DO.... great advice k?
when she says somthing ignorant, ex:
your mom: its all your fault , you didnt come out early anough!
you: turn your head , loook at her right in the eyes and start laughing.
Repeat this is every argument.
SHE KNOWS YOU WILL BE UPSET , AND YOU ARE LETTING HER RUN ALL OVER YOU, ACT LIKE IT DONT BOTHER YOU AND SHE WILL STOP.
and if this doesnt help , then idk you got a ignorant bitchy mom , and i would tell her to
F&%$ off forever.
♥ kaylaa
]
More Questions: |