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what should i tell him?
my ex boyfriend calls me and told me he has feelings for me. he said he cant stop thinking about me and he wishes he meets someone like me. what should i do? i dont like him no more and i never did. i have feelings for someone elus and she is my best friend and she is a women! i told her how i felt. she was shocked and she is fine with it but she doesnt feel the same because she is not sure what gender she likes yet and she isnt ready for a realtionship right now. i dont want to tell my ex that i like someone elus and its a women! he knows her cause they are friends too. i dont want to break his heart again . he is a friend to me and i dont know what to say to him when he said he likes me but he lives in a diffenret state. he is trying to get over me but he cant.
what do i do?
what do i say?
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You should say:
Hey im so so sorry but i dont want a long term relationship( since he lives in another state, correct?) it took me a long time to get over you and i just dont want to be in a relationship right now. i hope you can understand. i love you as a friend and thats all..
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I cant go out with you because im not sure about my orientation, i hope you understand my situation
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Hello.
I think you should just tell him the truth, to a certain degree. You are probably right in not wanting to tell him about liking his other friend who's a woman as it may just upset him more but you do need to tell him you don't feel the same anymore about him.
The thing is that if you don't tell him now then it will just get harder for you to tell him and the harder it may become for him to accept and get over it. The best thing you can do is reassure him he will find someone else and let him know that you managed to get over him and now only see him as a friend so he just needs to hang in there and he will be able to do the same as well. Just don't let yourself be backed into a corner into having to admit you have feelings that aren't there for him - would just cause countless problems in the long run.
Good luck and good luck also with this other woman. :]
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