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love life - nonexistent? if thats a word haha
this might be long... 15/f. i've never had a boyfriend or kiss. people always say oh it's okay your only 15 or whatever, but its really not okay. i feel like such a loser. i dont even have guy friends. it's not like im afraid of them or anything, i talk to guys when they talk to me, but i just dont have any guy friends. im not a "loser" though either. i hang out with a lot of the "popular" girls who hang out with more guys than girls. all of my friends have had more than 2 boyfriends and all of them have gone pretty far with guys. i dont want to be like them or anything, but i DO want to get guy friends. please give advice, any will help. <333
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I am a female who is 14 and considered popular i have a lot of guy friends they are really easy 2 talk 2 its just like talking to a girl all u have 2 do is start a convo with 1 and and i gurantee you will have a bunch of them
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First of all...you're NOT a loser! I'm 16 and i justt got my first boyfriend...adn i'm also "popular". And believe me, its much easier not having a boyfriend, because sometimes i wish that i could just be able to not worry abotu him, and just hang out with my girlfriends.
BUt i also understand what you're going through, i went through the same thing. What you should do is just try and hang out with your girlfriends and theirr guy friends a lot and eventually they should become your friends too. When you know that they are all hangning out one night, casually ask one of your girlfriends what she's doing, or if she wants to do something with you, and chances are that she will say "oh i already have plans, we are going to the movies, you wanna go?" And then when you go, talk to the guys a lot, and you should become friends in no time, and eventually the friendships will turn into boyfriends.
Good Luck!! And don't worry!!
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