this guy and his girlfriend think im trying to break them up
Question Posted Friday May 18 2007, 8:55 am
your going to have to work with me here because this gets complicated!!
there is this girl who starting giving out to be yesterday cause she thinks im trying to break up her and her boyfriend? i know the guy pretty well but havent ever siad anything to him that would imply im trying to break them up. i asked him stuff like "why did you like her" but it was out of curiousity and nothing else?
i send the girl a girl message by accident that was meant to go to the boy about how he liked her but i sent it to her and she thought we were talking about a different girl so she went andgot with some other lad.
they got back together but now she thinks i did it all just to break them up
what should i do to clear my name? she is goin around sayin stuff about me and none of it is true
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Friendship? hoji answered Friday May 18 2007, 3:26 pm: relationships seems to be complicated, as some rule God conspired against us all, which seems to make most of us kinda paranoid.
If you did have such a open friendship with the boyfriend... he should have surely known, wouldn't he? and perhaps cleared it up with her himself?
I won't pretend to know the direct answer to your question,
but ye, open communication with her would at this stage seem to be the best option, in front of him and her.
but a question you should be able to answer her is... what was the interest in any case?
and you SHOULD answer that truthfully.
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AskJR answered Friday May 18 2007, 10:20 am: For God's sake, tell her.
Initiate a conversation and tell her the truth about the mix up...
People make mistakes. It's really no biggie and you're making a mountain out of a mole hill.
Set the facts staight and clear your name. If she continues to gossip, tell the listeners the truth.
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