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he's abusive. ish.
this guy in like 2/6 of my classes seems to hate me even though i haven't done anything to him.
like today, i didn't even look at him and he kicked me.
when i asked why he said i was "a disease".
i don't know what his problem is, but i thought maybe the smart people on advicenators might know that and what i should do.
and rule out "he likes you," because last year i told him i liked him and he was a total jerk the rest of the year, but not abusive.
and then the beginning of this year he was okay and then started being abusive.
D=
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my advice beat the shit out of him, show him who is boss. for example this boy a couple years ago was calling me names and he had a white tall tee on , when he was walking out the door i took my pen and drew all down the back of his shirt , then decided to laugh at him:]. if anytime you should be a bitch , hun now is the time. Now that you know he doesnt like you , obviously hes just being a asshole. Just embarress him to the maxx bet' he'll stop.
xx kaylaa
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hmmm... since your ruled that out i wnt say he likes you..... but perhaps it's because he knows you like him and he'd told his friends and because they didn't react to it as he expected (they probably laughed or goofed of and made it seem like he liked you or so) he reacted violently.... not that you are a "disease" that is just beyond abusive to me!! but what i mean to say boys his age (i am assuming your in middle school?!?!) usually react stupidly and behave in ridicules ways... it doesn't have to be something personal... so don't take it as that... if he continues stand up for yourself and scream at him or throw something (i once threw a dictionary on this guy for bugging me in class and i am usually a good student so they knew it was wayyyy beyond my normal reaction and got mad at him for overdoing things) but dnt go crazy nothing like a chair or a compass or something!!! you don't want to get in trouble!
anyway i hope this helps....
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god, i know what ur talking about. The boy i sit infront of in science kicks me constently in the back the entire class. I was wearing a hoodie one day and i leaned back to stretch and he choked me! yess he choked me. I guess they do that to us because they like our reaction. Next time he kicks you or whatever ignore him or say something funny to him. He seems to like to get you mad so dont get mad. I laugh when he kicks me now, and now he started verbal abuse, but i just give it back to him lol. so yeah when he kicks you again either keep walking or like or like say something to him that you would say to your friends as a joke like you whore or whatever.
hope it getts better
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Yeah. That's not cool.
Probably the reason he treats you this way is your age. I see that you're listed as 14. Fourteen is an age when boys start to get aggressive with other schoolmates because it elevates their social status and makes them look tough and cool and 'bad.' You are probably just the target he chose because you're not too popular and you don't have someone bigger than him to protect you. It's probably not personal, you're probably just the easiest target because you're passive or shy or not in the popular group.
What you have to do is stand up for yourself. If he kicks you, you tell him he can't do that and/or tell the teacher. Keep your friends around you if you can. If he doesn't stop, report him as a bully to a teacher or counselor or whatever.
Sabine
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