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Question Posted Wednesday May 16 2007, 1:34 pm

I dated this guy for a month.
He's a nice guy, but have bad temper. There're so much differences between us. HOwever, we also have the same option on the overall view of life. We fighted a lot (2 out of 3 times when we went out)considered the period of time we dated.

Now, he doesn't talk to me at all. No emails, no txt, no calls. I know we couldn't work out as couple, but I'd like still be friend, but he obviously doesn't want to...what do I do?


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xo_summertimegirl_ox answered Wednesday May 16 2007, 4:41 pm:
You have to understand that most relationships arent perfect and couples do get in fights. If you know that you guys arent going to work, then believe your intuition and follow it. It's your best instinct to everything in life! Since he isnt communicating with you through emails and text etc. Then what do you think he is trying to tell you? If you know that things arent going right for you and a guy you are dating then the best choice is to just leave him...but since you said that you still like to be his friend. Maybe that would be better for the both of you! I bet it would work if you guys starting to go back to the friend mode. Try it and if he doesnt want to then thats his problem. He shouldn't make it a big deal for you. It's your life, and he just wants to make it difficult so the best is up to you!!

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meghannnx answered Wednesday May 16 2007, 4:05 pm:
just give him time. you could confront him, or you could just let him be an ass, and eventually he will miss you. Im positive eventually he will miss talking to you and seeing you. Over time you will be friends again

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ADDiCT3DTOHiMx answered Wednesday May 16 2007, 3:54 pm:
Sadly, this happens in most relationships. Over time, you guys will prolly be friends again but dont but in the time and effort. Him acting like that is lame, and he will eventually miss talking to you.

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christina answered Wednesday May 16 2007, 3:13 pm:
Ignore him. He obviously doesn't wanna be your friend so why should you put in the effort? Fuck him.

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katie_babey answered Wednesday May 16 2007, 2:23 pm:
well theres nuthin you can really do you have to wait til he comes around and starts talkin to you. But if you guys fought all the time why would u want to be his friend im sure he will fight with you now too. thats not good to be friends with someone that has a bad temper because taht leads to violence and thats not a good relationship. eVen if u were friends he will stil have hes temper and if you guys get into a fight which friends do that leads to big trouble. i think you shoudl just stay away from him for awhile because i had a friend and her bf had a bad temper then they became friends but he started to hurt her and threaten her and she had to gobak outwith him because she was scared. But after awhile she realized that she had to leave him and she did. But i just dont wnat that for you because thats where it leads too. okk well hope i helped if you need anymore help you can write me in my inbox!
-kateylnd

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icey0990 answered Wednesday May 16 2007, 2:01 pm:
Honestly..dont worry about it. You guys might be friends in the future..but not now. Dont wworry too much about it..just enjoy hanging out with friends and meeting new people.
-m3lissa

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