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he looses me...
okay so there's this guy i really like, we're pretty good friends. his friend and i went out for a while.. but we broke up... there was NO chemistry. so then me and the guy i really like, we'll call him nick, did some... *ahem* type stuff... but then we had a date planed, he stood me up, and ever since then it's been kinda akward with us. but latly he's been majorly hitting on me one day, and the next he'll completely ignore me... i can't understand him. And then yesterday i asked him to sign my year book and he's like "i'm not gonna sign your s**t." and since i was in a bad mood cuz of family problems i was like "okay whatever, f***ing prick." Then today he was really sweet, he did all his little i like you type things... but it's like i never know what to expect, ya know? so i'm just wondering what to think... i'm soo lost... can anyone give me a little advice on what to do? sorry this question's sooo long. Thank you in advance ^_^
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so obviously this guy doesnt kno what he wants.. he wants you but he isnt sure... id just tell him where to go i kno its hard.. but he seems like hes gonna use you. it happened to me before.. and i stayed ther and put up with it for a long time. hopeing he would cahnge.. but he never did so i had to stand up for myself... and i just walked away.. and now when he looks at me.. he knos that thats the girl he can never have.. because i kno what a asshole he is... so thats what u should do not only will u feel better about yourself but you'll let him see that you cant do that 2 u..
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Great advice by Ammo.
Okay, your school year is almost over. I suggest you ignore this pain in the rear until the end of school and try to avoid him this summer if possible. He needs to "get it" that he can't have it both ways, flirting one minute and acting like he can't stand you the next. You should simply be above that and not have time for it. Find another friend. One who's consistently nice. That's one of the basic requirements for friendship, much less a relationship that goes beyond.
Sabine
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Hello.
I just want to make sure I have understood this clearly...
YOu both were friends, then went out, broke up, stayed friends after that but still and did some stuff together then had a date planned for which he never showed up and now back to being just friends or sort of, since you can't figure out what's up with him, right?
Sounds to me like he wanted some fun but doesn't want anything long term. You're both not compatible with each other when it comes to a relationship since it was the reason you both broke up in the first place but then you did some stuff together and afterwards when you arranged a date he never bothered to show up. Perhaps because he didn't think that doing stuff together would have resulted in you both getting serious to the point you'd both end up in a date (which is something he may not have wanted and so just stood you up). Now, he's been acting a jerk towards you and I'm not entirely sure why since it sounds like a stupid way to be acting towards you but then all of a sudden he's all nice and shit. Maybe he's just after the same kinda thing that happen before with you both but without the strings?
I'm not sure to be honest but it's the impression that I get. He has no reason to be so hostile towards you so I think before it does come down to you giving in to whatever he says and something else like before happening again you make sure where it is you stand with him. If he wants to be friends keep it to that because having a friendship with benefits will just create problems (trust me I know especially when one of the persons gets emotionally involved) unless it's what YOU want as well. If you're after a meaningful relationship though then, again, think twice becuase you already tried once and there was nothing there so would it even be worth trying again? Not to mention he had the chance to try again with that date but he stood you up. If it really meant that much to him he would have at least said afterwards to re-arrange the date.
I think first and foremost though you need to find out where you stand with him. Does he want your friendship or not because it's unfair onyou to out up with his abusive outbreaks and then the next day be all friendly with you like nothing happen. People like that piss me off especially since I've had people act like that towards me as well. It gets really annoying. Good luck. :]
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