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sex and happiness
my husband and i enjoy love making when we do get into it with out a question, he is very passionate and always willing to please me and i would really like to do the same in making him as happy as he made me, we have been married almost a year with blessings and very happy. no i'm not complaining beleave me so here it goes.
my question is can sex satisfied a man to the point of where he doesn't go a stray to look eles where?
can a man be happy with the same woman for a live time and be contented with sex if he is being pleasured always?
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Well...
You are with somebody not because he is fun...or because he is good in bed.
You are with him cause of the chemistry you got together.
Of course after you had 9 times sex with him, its hard for him to get hard after that...so in that way ..yeah...he will not look elsewhere.
But it is mostly in his character to be looking in other places for love as well.
Some people go with others even though they are with someone they love. A relatioship thats built around sex, can only last that long.
In any case, I wish you the best.
Just dont kill the man.
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Hi.
Intersting question indeed and I don't think there really is an answer because every guy is so different. I personally don't even know why guys would stray away from who they are with because if they have something/someone special there by their side why risk it all for something so stupid? Has never made much sense to me but I guess it's all down to the very essence of what mankind really is.
I'd like to think he married you with the intention of wanting to be with and stay with you for good so doubt (and hope he wouldn't) really need to look elsewhere at all. Guys occasionaly do and will look though (remember the saying look but don't touch?) and thatin itself is not avoidable because a lot of women do the same thing as well. It's not a sign that something is wrong or anything it's just human nature. The real problem happens when either decide or have the need to want to act on those feelings. To answer your question more directly though I think yes, a man can be more than happy with the same woman for a lifetime AND be content with their sex life always provided there is communication. The only time when things go wrong is when there is a problem with communication. Sex is just one of the things that make up a marriage/relationship and provided there's communication there to ensure both individuals are happy and are satisfied with the other in the bedroom there shouldn't be any problems. Logically thinking about it, if you're sexlives are awesome and you're satisfied with each other then you wouldn't and shouldn't need to stray from the nest. But then there's nothing logical about how some guys act/think. :/
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