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Does he like me?
I've been liking this guy for a while now, and I don't know what he's thinking. He sits with or near me in the classes we have together, and we have some very flirtatious inside jokes. We flirt a lot, but I don't know if he's reading my flirting as more than fun, and I'm worried he is just flirting for fun. Also, he gets VERY immature around certain guy-friends, but not as much with me. Does that mean something?
Oh, and my friends asked him out a while ago, and he did NOT take it very well.
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To be honest it seems to be nothing more than innocent flirting. It happens but sometake it far too seriously and make something out of something that isn't there. His reactions though, from what you've said, seem to indicate it's just innocent fun to him hence he does the same with others too. I'm exactly the same with a lot of my friends and girls I talk to as well. It's all innocent flirting because I think if one of them turned to me and told me they like me I'd be pretty shocked. :O Although I do understand your frustrations in you flirting seriously and him not taking it seriously. The fact that he was very annoyed with your friends asking him out as well may indicate that he's not looking for that kind of thing at the moment, but I'm not sure. You're friends with him though so maybe you should ask him about it when you both are alone and talking? I'm sure it's no secret your friends asked him out so why not ask him about it and ask him how come he had taken it so badly as wellas how come he had said no to them/her. It may give you better insight into what he is looking for or who he's looking for.
As for him acting immature around certain friends that's normal behaviour so don't think anything of it. I'm immature all the time, lol. But more so when I'm around certain people - it's just who I am really. Like all my cousins, when we all get together we like having a good laugh and we let out the little boys in us. It's not about 'acting' immature at all with us - more just letting loose and being ourselves and being able to have a good laugh (which we always do). So I don't think you should think anything of it really. :] He may not be that way with you just because you're a girl. Not being sexist or anything but even with me - I'm the same as him. I am more immature with and around my guy friends than I ever am around any of my female friends. Not really sure why and have never really thought about it much.
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