For my whole high school life, all I wanted was a nice sweet guy to be with. I met this kid from another school recently and hes the sweetest kid ever and he's eventually going to ask me out. You would think I would be so happy. I finally found a sweet person who likes me. But I'm not happy at all. I seem to be in worse shape then when I started. This seems to happen everytime. I think I like someone, then it starts to get serious, then I change my mind and back out. Whats wrong with me? Should I go out with him when he asks me, and see how it goes from there? Or because I'm having doubts should I get out of it now? I don't know, any advice would be appreciated.....
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? kayybabyx3 answered Tuesday May 15 2007, 9:36 pm: idk..but to me it kinda sounds like maybe something might have happened to you in your past or something that effects you know..or you could just be shy.its not a big deal. i think you back out because your not ready. but if you feel like you really like this guy..go for it. who knows,it may work out =]
the worst thing that could happen is that things dont work out the way you planned. but god makes us find all the wrong people first so then we can finally appreciate the right person when we found them.
good luckk and i hope things work out!!! [ kayybabyx3's advice column | Ask kayybabyx3 A Question ]
DepthofHeart answered Tuesday May 15 2007, 9:30 pm: If you like him then you should go out with him, just don't go out with him because you think you should. Just because he's a sweet guy and he likes you that doesn't mean you have to be attracted to him. You could think you like someone and they may not turn out as great as you think they are, or maybe you have commitment phobia? I don't know. So if you like him then give him a chance, if you really don't like him (and aren't just scared to be in a relationship) then don't go out with him. There are tons of guys in the world, I'm sure you'll find one you like.
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