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Is now the time to do something?
I had a really bad reputation at school, until 8th grade, when I got "pretty".
During this year, I liked this popular guy, and he liked me back.
But, he was too ashamed to admit it. I'm letting him slide for this one, because in all truth, if the weirdest kid in school liked me as well, then I probably wouldn't put that out in the forefront.
He also made a lot of excuses. He went out with this blond, model type girl, that he absolutely HATED, because she was obsessed with him. And, when I asked him straight up if he liked me, he'd go "I don't want a girlfriend, because you have to buy them things".
Stupid crap like that.
Now, this year, things are different. I'm well-liked by most people (except his friends, who despise me.)
Earlier this year, he would try and talk to me, and become friends with me again.
Now, he doesn't really try. He just stares at me, and when I look back, he has this really hard look on his face.
I'm pretty sure he regrets his decision, but why won't he just say so?
I don't know why I still like him, after all he's done to me, but I do.
I just want him to talk to me. To say sorry. To tell me what's going on. This "issue" has been going on for two years now, and it's about to go into three if I don't do something soon.
Last two weeks of school.
Guys, what's his problem? What should I do, or say?
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Ok, so I'm a guy so I pretty much know what his problem is...
Guys hate admiting that they are wrong. Personally, I could careless, I mean I'm not afraid or ashamed of admiting that i was wrong. But, thats probably what his problem is. If you really want an answer from him, and if you really want to settle this with him, chances are that you are probably going to have to confront him first. I know that may suck for you, but that is just the way some guys are, they could be the biggest jocks, but they are just scared to admit that they're wrong. So, that's what I'd do. Confront him first, ask him whats up with your "issue" and see where it goes from there.
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Guys are like that. Too afraid to admit they're wrong, too scared to ask for directions & too much of a hard ass to cry. Basically, talk to him about it. Instead of always waiting for him to make the effort, why don't you do it? Just go up to him & talk. I mean, he's obviously too shy or too dumb to do it, so you need to. Talk things over, find out what's going on & try to make things work. But nothing will get better if the both of you just sit there & admire how pretty the other is.
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listen, almost all guys are like that. I would usually do the sme thing that he did to you bac, but indtead i would probably just take an easier route like making him jealous with another guy, but not just any guy, someone that almost all girls like, but if that only makes it worse, then brake up with the guy and tell the other what is really going on and tell him that u broke up with him because you really only wanted the one that you like.(do this only if the jealousey thing doesn't work out.) :)
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