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making out makes you a whore?
so i never had a boyfriend, but ive kissed 4 boys, im 14 by the way. does this make me slutty in any way to be kissing/making out with boys who arent my boyfriend?
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In my opionion, not really. It's a fine line, but I think of a slut as someone who does stuff with random guys off the street, you know? But mabye, for your own personal benifit and so as not to appear "easy", you should take who you kiss a little more seriously. For example, you shouldn't ever feel pressured to kiss/makeout with someone. While the physical temptation can be really strong, you might want to hold off and just kiss a guy when YOU want too, and because you really like him. hope that was helpful!
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NO, it does not make you a whore, slut, ect. Being that would mean you doing more sexual things with random guys. But, people are going to call you a slut, whore, ect. even if you are the prudest girl in school. That's just what people do, they judge people. So even if somebody does ever say that to you don't listen.
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i am in high school. nobody has called me slutty except my friend jessie but she was kidding. and i dont just kiss random guys, they were all guys i knew and were friends with. and its not like i do it everyday, two were last summer, 2 were within the last 2 weeks
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Technically, no, because the word whore refers to sex. Now, since you aren't having sex, it isn't that big of a deal for most people.
BUT you can get a reputation as being slutty. AND it could either 1) be harder to get a good boyfriend because of what people think of you or 2) make you particularly attractive to the wrong guys because they'll think you're easy.
A reputation like that at your age is not a good thing. If people are saying you're slutty, maybe you should tone it down a bit. If you're making out with completely random guys, people are going to think of you as a slut. If these aren't random guys, they could still think that, even if it's not true.
At 14, kissing all kinds of boys really isn't that important, although it's fun. Saving your reputation is probably more important right now. You don't want to get up into high school with that whore label all over you. That is NOT good.
Just, if you want to make out with a guy you're attracted to, don't do it in front of people. That might help a bit...even though he probably will tell his friends all about it.
It's best, being so young, to have a good, respectable image. And slut isn't a good, respectable image.
Do what you want, but also think about it before you make the decision.
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No Not at all. Because, your kissing them. Your not having sex with them. Now if you were having sex with every guy that walked your street But your not so there for your not a whore.
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well not really. But it still kind of makes you look bad but it not being a whore or a slut it just makes you look bad and guys would think you are reall easy.
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personally i don't think so. unless you do it too easily, the it is questionable.
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