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kissing-my guy doesn't like it
i've been dating this guy for a couple of weeks and he wouldn't kiss me but he said he really liked me. so when i went in to kiss him he backed off and i got really mad and yelled at him why he wouldn't kiss me if he liked me so much. he told me he didn't like to be kissed on the mouth but he does like to be kissed on the neck and stuff. i don't kno what to do. i like to be kissed on the mouth and he's driving me insane.
please help!!
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The advice already given is definitely good, but I have another idea that may work. I'm guessing that you like this guy and don't want to break up with him over this if there's another solution. So, here we go:
If he has kissed girls before, he may have had a bad experience. Maybe the first girl he kissed accidentally bit him...or had bad breath...ANYTHING can turn you off from something just from one bad experience.
You can ask him why he doesn't like kissing and don't take "I just don't like it" as an answer unless he gets really sensitive about it.
On the other hand, it could just be one of those "things" that people have and there's nothing you can do about it. If that's the case, another solution will have to be taken.
Hope that helps!
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We all have our hang-ups. Apparently, this is one of his for some reason, and unfortunately it's something that most people have no problem with whatsoever - indeed, it's something that almost everyone LIKES to do, and it's considered a vital part of a relationship.
Don't count on him ever really getting over it. He may learn to tolerate kissing after a while, but it could be many years (if ever) before he learns to like it.
I would say that if he's unwilling to meet you halfway on this matter, you may need to consider whether you can continue with this relationship. Physical affection is important, and if he can't give you what you need (especially if it's as simple as a kiss) then you can and should move on rather than hang around and be driven insane.
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well he might not be ready for kissing on the mouth. guys mature at a much slower rate than girls do, which you probably know.
there's really nothing you can do to change the way he feels about intimate kissing. You could either break up with him, or you could just keep kissing him on the neck and stuff... who knows? he might end up opening up to let you kiss him on the lips...
i hope I helped
i'm sort of in a similar situation with my guy (but we're going on our 2nd date this weekend- sooo yeah idk if he'll let me kiss him or not lol)
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