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what should i do? i caught one of my male relatives cheating on his female counterpart and i need advice quick.
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Unless you happen to also be very close to his girlfriend, this is not really your business. You can tell him what you know and how you feel, but be careful about thinking that you can threaten to tell her. It is not your place to interfere in their relationship. That being said...I have to admit that it would be very difficult to sit by and do nothing myself. It could be that their relationship is more complex than it appears and interferring could bite you in the butt. I believe in telling the truth, but the problem of whose truth to tell becomes the tricky part. Sometimes we think we know the whole situation, but we don't. This may have been an old friend or someone who is not a threat to the relationship or the girlfriend may have cheated on him. I can't instruct you on what to do in this situation, so go with your gut, but very cautiously and without being judgemental.
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Talk to your male relative about it. Tell him that he needs to tell his girlfriend that he is cheating on her within a week or you will. If he gets angry at you, hey, he's the one that was not only cheating, but not doing a very good job of hiding it. Make sure he knows you're serious. Good luck.
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