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Am I ready for this?
13/f
One day, I was coming home from school, and told me that I'm getting older, and she'll let me have sex(protected) next year when I turn 15.
I'm scared, I have a great b/f, but i don't like him that way!!!
what do i do???
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Whoa whoa whoa. who told you this? DID YOUR MOM TELL YOU THAT? Well, whoever told you that isn't a very good role model for you.
Don't do anything you don't want to or arn't ready to. you'll regret it then. when your ready to do that type of thing, even if your like 20, wait for it. because its not special or anything, if you just do it with anyone.
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Did your mother tell you this? Is she serious? Did she really just give her daughter permission to have sex? Do me a favor. If this is your mother, slap her in the face & call her an idiot.
If you have to ask if you're ready, then chances are you're not.
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Who is she?
If you don't want to have sex- no one can make you. Its ultimately your choice and choosing not to is the best decision. If someone is trying to force you into having sex.. which I'm not sure because of the grammar of the question... That would be illegal, especially since you're underage..
--Jack
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I'm assuming by "and told me that I'm getting older..." that you're referring you your mother of another female gaurdian?
You ask what you do when you are allowed to have sex but don't like your boyfriend that way? Simple answer - Don't do it.
If you're only 13 then you shouldn't really be having sex anyway. Sex is for two people who truly love each other. You just said here hat you aren't into your boyfriend that way, at least not now. If you don't truly love someone, don't lead them on by having sex with them. Also don't have sex with them just because they want it or you think you have to. Unless you're 100% ready to sleep with someone, don't.
It's as simple as that. If you are unsure in any way when it comes to sex, the answer should be no. If you have to think about it for more than just the inital reaction to the random question then you are NOT ready.
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