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what to do..
hey
so i have a crush on a guy in one of my classes and i've been talking to him alot for the past week...we won't really talk at school because we don't see eachother. but so far we've talked just about everynight since last tuesday. (4/24) and the other night we talked from 12- 3:30 AM and then the other night we talked from like 11-12:30 on the phone. and i'm trying to flirt with him more but i don't know how to without being too obvious or sounding stupid. i'm not sure how to hint to him i like him without coming out and saying i like you. but i mean if you talk to a guy from 11:45- 3:30 on a monday night thats gotta mean something right?? Ugh, I'm just not sure how i should hint to him that i like him. any ideas?
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Easy ways to get a guy to open up ask certain questions the best one that worked for me.
When it gets quiet and there is a pause ask:
"What are you thinking about?"
He will either ask you what YOU are thinking about if he does, thats usually a good indication that he is in the same boat as you.
Or ask him what he looks for in a girl. They will usually describe you. Then ask you the same question.
Men are simple creatures, and usually shy. But yes talking until 3:30 that means something.Good luck sweet heart
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Just tell him you like him. He more than likely already likes you back, so you need to tell him.
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If this guy is talking to you on the phone this much, then one of two things is going on:
(1) He's rapidly becoming sick of you, and he's about to snap.
(2) He likes you back and is waiting for YOU to make a move or give him an opening.
Fortunately, it shouldn't be hard to figure out which one is the case; generally, people give pretty clear signs when someone is driving them insane. If he seems happy to see you or hear from you, then you can rest assured that #2 is the case.
At this point, I'd say simple flirtation might be a step backward, because it's already well-established that he likes you. It is now time for something more direct.
Suggest to him that instead of talking on the phone until the wee hours of the morning, you actually get together and spend time in the same room. This is the best possible opening he could imagine for asking you on a date - if he doesn't take the opportunity, it's time to wonder why. Of course, it's not the '50s anymore; you can ask him on a date if you want to.
Bottom line: he likes you. He's just being shy about it. You might need to make the next move here if you want things to move along.
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