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OK well theres 2 guys we will call one Bob, and then other Evan
Ok well i really like Bob and Evan.
Bob and I went out last year, and everything was pretty good. but then he broke up with me and then everything was pretty sucky. However later i started to like Evan, but Evan's parents thought that he was "too old" for me. which is kinda weird b/c my parents should be the one saying that hes too old. But i'm 14 very soon 15, and he just turne 18, so really its not that bad. But Evan and I remained pretty good friends even though his parents wouldn't let us hang out or anything.
Now Bob decided that he like me again? We went to the movies, he totaly lead me on, and the next week he changed his mind and said that he thought it just wouldn't work?? But then i talked him into letting me have another chance. He charged his mind back and forth like a million times, but as of now its that he likes me. I really really like bob, like more than anyone else even Evan. However Evan's parents decided to stop being retarded and now are ok with us hanging out so i think this weekend we might do something.
Ok so you might be asking ok well wahts the problem, you have two guys that like you. And the whole picking one isn't really the problem neither. The problem is, I like(d) Evan a lot before and i still do. but we just have to be friends so i kinda got used to that...I really like BOB like a lot. But the thing with him is that he never acts like he likes me. IN school he won't talk to me, not even say hey in the halls we just ignore eachother. and then with Evan its the competly opposite, hes relaly really nice to me, gives me hugs, and waits for me after classes...you know actually acts like he does like me.
I WANT Bob the most, but i like Evan the best-like the way he actually does talk to me in school. I really have no idea what to do. i just like bob and evan, but i want bob the most, but he dosn't act like he likes me at all. I hate it soo much idk waht to do.
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Dont let yourself get hurt. That is what BOB is going to do i can tell you that already. There is nothing good about being in a secluded relationship. Evan seems like a sweet guy. Maybe a little old but age is just a number as long as there is no sex. Evan sounds like the real man in the situation. Bob seems like he just wants you around when there is no one else there. Never push away the nice guy, they might not be Mr. Perfect but they are better than a guy that wont give you the time of day unless you are alone.
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If Bob ignores you inside of school, but not outside of school, the choice you need to make should be clear. A lightbulb should go off in your head & you should hear an alarm.
Go with Evan. He doesn't change around you even when the environment does.
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Hey there! You need to be honest, you can't go out with Evan when you have stronger feelings for Bob! =( i know he's really sweet but think of how it's going to work out later on, you're going to go out with him when you're thinking of Bob and wishing that it was Bob instead!
Bob keeps changing his mind about you! =S you need to talk to him and tell him that things need to change, he needs to change his actions! He has to act like he cares and act like a good boyfriend! If he doesn't then he doesn't deserve you! Talk to him and ask why has he been having second thoughts and see his reasons...btw why did you guys break up in the first place? It might have something to do with that...anyways update me! i hope i helped!! Take care and tell me what you're going to do! If you need anything else ask away! :D <3
EDIT (this is a reply to the feedback): Hey! Since he isn't even trying and he's not listening to you! Then he's not worth it! But i can tell that you really really like this guy! My only advice then is to force him to listen to you and If you're not going to give up...then try different ways to make him listen! =) take care! update me okk!! <3
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