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whats sluty whats not


Question Posted Wednesday May 2 2007, 3:08 pm

ok im 17 and still a virgin and well i have only done stuff with 2 guys and well lets just say that they are and were both taken but yet i still did a handjob and got fingered and i felt really bad but i than again if they offer it again im afriad that i might not be able to say no so is just doing 4play with people and not having sex with them sluty and its weird because im shy but when im broken out of my shell im broken out but ive only done it with 2 guys and i can say no to certin people but sometimes i cant

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KaladaLeigh answered Wednesday May 2 2007, 4:35 pm:
I'm so glad you're a virgin.... wait for marriage please....

okay, yeah it was kinda slutty, sorry to say... but that doesn't mean you're a slut, and if people call you that, then that's not ok...

and you can say no!
you don't have to do anything you don't want to!

why can't you say no?
do you feel bad, like you're letting someone down?
well that's too bad. no one should be asking u 4 crap like that anyway

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DearAbby92 answered Wednesday May 2 2007, 4:03 pm:
It IS slutty that you did that with them when you werent in a relationship with them, especially that they were taken.

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lilmegsoko answered Wednesday May 2 2007, 3:23 pm:
Your 17 and still a virgin. So you fooled around with a couple guys. Oh well. Most girls half your age have done the whole football team. Just remember , lust is one of the most powerful emotions we have. Most women go through a young "sexual peak". No reason to hide from it. If they are already in a realtionship, no its not right to do it. But whats more important is watching for STD's with guys like that. Obviously they have no problem lying about their sexual encounters. Never let someone pressure you , when the time is right you will know. There is nothing slutty about what you have done, but if i were you i would aim for the single guys ;)

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