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ok heres the thing im known as to be crazy funny and flirty you know and well im not ugly and im not skinny but i dont think im overly fat people say im rightfully plump i have big boobs but not saggy and i have an alright ass and im like meduim size in a way i could be skinner but i have no self confidence and it seems like i lack what guys want its like theres always something better for example i'll just be flirting and than there move on to something better its like i dont do it for them and i dont know why its like i have a lot of guy friend but no guy boyfriends wtf help me please and thank you and although i still get offers but none from the ones i like u know
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Almost every girl has a low self-esteem. Some girls don't, but I'll say about 95% do. It's really unavoidable. Everyone hates something about themselves. EVERYONE. No matter what someone tells you, there is something about themselves they just don't like, and would probably do anything to fix.
If you don't like being the size you are, then lose weight. Don't get an eating disorder. Don't starve yourself, and don't take diet pills. Do everything the healthy way. Though it may mean giving up the foods & things you love, it'd be well worth it to get you healthier & happier.
As for guys, if they move on THAT quickly & go to the next girl, then they're shallow & you shouldn't concern yourself with them anyways. They're no good for you & you need to realize that. No matter what someone tells you...YOU CAN DO BETTER. Forget those guys. Them choosing someone over you is their loss, and it's their problem, not yours. While a girl may be thin, she may have low confidence too. Or maybe she's stuck up. Either way, they're missing out.
And try to get your confidence up. The last thing a guy wants is a girl who talks down about herself with everything she says. It can get annoying trying to convince someone of something & they never believe you. If you've got confidence though, a guy will never leave. It's nice to know your girlfriend/boyfriend thinks they're beautiful.
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First of all hun, don't put yourself down. These skinny people you see walking around arent perfect. A lot of girls have a problem with self confidence. We can thank the media for that. They try to make us believe in order to be a beautiful woman, we have to weigh 80 pounds be 6'0" feet tall , and look perfect in a bikkini. Here's the best advice i can give. Dont look. You never get what you want when you want it. Lets put it this way , there are men out there that like women with a little meat. My fiance is one of them. When i got pregnant, he told me he couldnt wait until i had her because my tits are too big...how many men say that? Beauty is in the eye of the beholder, different men like different things. Just sit tight, you will meet him, and when you do , it will be worth the wait.
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