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Masturbaing and Peeing
I'm a 19 year old female. I have a boyfriend and we have sex regularly. I frequently masturbate in order to reach orgasm. (He can't get me off by fingering me or going down on me - but we do continue to try). Recently when I've masturbated I've felt like I peed slightly. Is this possible and if so how can I prevent it. I don't want to do this with my boyfriend - it would be very embarrassing! Thanks!
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I have to say that the closer that some people get to a strong orgasm, the more they feel like they are going to urinate.
Having this exact same problem before, you really need to think about what just came out of your body. Is it liquidy or more creamy? If it's thicker than fluid then it's likely you have ejaculated on yourself.
Here is a good link about female ejaculation:
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Urinating during sexual activity really isn't that uncommon if that is what is happening to you. I know a few girls who have full-on peed during sex completely by accident. I also know girls who "dribble" a little here and there during sexual activites.
If you are urinating then you may have a bladder problem. Do you urinate more often than others? I also know a woman who, if she didn't take her medication to help her overactive bladder, would urinate on her partner.
If overactive bladder may be the cause, you should talk with your doctor about this. Actually, if this is really bothering you and you feel it may not be normal (or you want to see if there is something they suggest you do to stop) see your doctor. Your doctor has heard this many times, I guarantee.
I wish you luck on figuring out what it is.
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I don't think this is pee...I think it's female ejaculation fluid. It's perfectly normal.
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Yes Girl! You are doing it right! You are cuming so hard that you can't controll your body. You ever heard that song where he said the girl misses him so much that she pees in the bed. hahaha I do it too. I mean if you don't want to do it then, if you can, use the bathroom before you have sex and try not to cum so hard. :P
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It is pretty much impossible to pee during orgasm. When you are orgasming, it is possible to have female ejaculation (squirt). It is said to be extremely intense pleasure, and I would killlll to be able to do it. It could also be that you just needed to pee before you got down. So try peeing before hand, and if you still feel like you might pee, just relax your mussels, and you might end up squirting!! Google female ejaculation - and find out how to reach it, becuase it sounds like you are one of few women who can achieve this easier than others. If your boyfriend watches porn or talks to his buddies at all, he should know what squirting is, and would be more than happy if you could do it. I would suggest telling him that sometimes you feel like you are about to, and if he would like it if you did.
Good luck! hope i helped
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Some women release a little fluid when they orgasm, called female ejaculation. It's not pee. Some women do pee a little when they orgasm due to the rhythmic contractions of the muscle. The bladder spasms a little. (according to Our Bodies, Ourselves)
Really, have you ever performed oral sex on a man? Then you've likely tasted a little bit of his urine. It all comes out the same hole with them and we're not supposed to think anything of it. I doubt your boyfriend would think anything of a little urine or whatever is coming out. Some men think it's very erotic. I just wouldn't worry about it or make a big deal of it.
Have fun!
Sabine
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First of all, as far as getting off during sex goes, try masturbating while you're on top of him (it helps if he's doing all the work during this part). That is the ONLY way I can get off while having sex. But you didn't ask that.
Anyway, I have been in this situation before, and I would suggest trying to pee before sex. Also, I've learned from experience that if you focus more on the area AROUND the clitoris, instead of the actual clitoris, it dulls the senses a little bit so that it doesn't push that little bladder trigger.
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