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okay. i am best friends with two girls. they consider me their best friend too. but i always feel left out. i am not the jealous type and i am not jealous, but they live within five min. from each other. one of my friend drives so she is always at my other friends house. the one friend who drives use to consider me the "best" friend. like we were just closer. but that was all before she got her license. now that she has it she is over there every day. like we will hang out after school and then they would bring me home, but they would go to each others house after they dropped me off. i dont get it. do they really consider me their best friend? i am so confused.
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don't worry about it too much, its probably just because they live so close to eachother. invite them both over your house on the weekends so there's more time with you all together and less time for them to be together alone. at the same time, keep your friendships with other people strong so you have a big network of people to fall back on / hang out with if your other two friends are being exclusive about it. you could also just talk to them about it at lunch and stuff and be like "i feel like i never see you guys anymore.." or something like "so did anything happen after i went home?" so they kind of get the picture that you are feeling left out. good luck :)
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hey, dont let this little stuff get you down. they live close by each other so its natural they will see each other more. as long as they are true friends, can trust you, etc. they are good friends. you should talk to your mom and have her allow you to have sleepover or something...sleepovers always bring people closer. you can also make arrangements for your mom to drop you off/pick you up at their houses. i hope it all workss out!
-melissa-
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