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I have a serious masterbation problem and I dont know what t
I'm female and 13 years old and I have a really bad masterbation problem. Its like it completely controls my mind and I just CAN'T stop thinking about it. I'm becoming really distant with friends and family because all I want to do is be alone so I can pleasure myself. As of a couple months ago I started skipping classes just so I could lock myself in the bathroom and masterbate. What really bothers me is that my boyfriend of 17 months now wants to finger me but I say no. but its not because I think I'm too young. Its because I want to be in control. Seriously, I need help and I dont know what to do !
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That website the first advisor gave is very interesting. It's very conservative Christian and actually kind of twists a biblical quote to say the bible is against masturbation. The truth is that quote says anyone who looks at a woman with lust in his heart has already committed adultery. Then the web site author tries to say that most people who masturbate view pornography, so the bible does speak out about masturbation. That's quite a logical leap and doesn't apply to you.
What does apply to you is that you have been masturbating to the extent that it is affecting your life in a negative way. There's a healthy amount and then there's overboard. You're way overboard. Any addiction is not good. Usually, people who start masturbating will stop once their clitoris or penis has been rubbed raw enough that it starts hurting. If you are not able to stop after that, I would suggest speaking with someone about it. If you feel comfortable, you could start with a school counselor. Planned parenthood might be able to help you. If you are comfortable, also, your pediatrician could possibly help. Regarding the boyfriend, I don't feel comfortable saying much because, depending on the laws in your state, he could possibly be pushing the borders of statutory rape with whatever he does, even if you agree. When the time is right for you, you should be ready to have sex (not just intercourse, but all forms of sex) as a shared bonding experience with your chosen partner.
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Masturbation is a good, healthy thing, but at the extent which you do it, it's not.
You might wanna talk to someone about this because it's taking control of your life & making you miss out in daily things.
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or google "masturbation addiction"
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