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feeling weird =[


Question Posted Tuesday April 17 2007, 5:59 pm

hey im a 16 year old female and i have sex weekly. me and my boyfriend do it unprotected usually but he never busts in me.
i got my period march 26 and we had sex in the shower. for the past week ive been having cramps in my stomach and its kinda starting to scare me that i could be pregnant. also my urine smells really weird i cant really discribe the smell, but its unusual. i really hope im not pregnant because i dont know what i'll do. my body looks normal but i feel like im peeing an extra lot. but maybe im just thinking that because i think im pregnant? i always get scared when my period is coming up cuz thats just a natural reaction for me. i hope nothins wrong.. but why do you think my urine smells? please helpp me <333

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XoXoXoXo77 answered Friday April 27 2007, 7:46 pm:
you could be pregnant
the only way to prevent getting pregnant
is to wear a condom.. you cant have unprotected sex and not expect to get pregnant.. even if he does pull out theres still semen in the pre cum

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Jessica13 answered Saturday April 21 2007, 11:45 pm:
wow your story is just like my sisters is your name tiffany just curious

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Brandi_S answered Thursday April 19 2007, 1:03 am:
Yah. The infamous "pull out" method doesn't work. I have a son as living proof that it doesn't. Pre cum contains sperm, though not as many as semen.

Since you are 16, I would wait to take a pregnancy test until you are at least 2 weeks late to be sure you get an accurate result. Reason being, because teen's cycles are generally not regulated. Keep in mind that it is possible to get a false negative result if you jump the gun.

As for the symptoms, I don't recall having stomach cramps during my pregnancy. I know that lower abdominal pain during pregnancy is a warning sign.
When I was in the first few months of my pregnancy, the symptoms I experienced where breast tenderness and swelling, frequent urination (like every 5 minutes, it seemed), irritability, and fatigue.
I don't recall my urine ever having strange smells, but symptoms can vary from person to person.
I can tell you that being dehydrated will cause urine odor, so be sure you are drinking plenty of healthy fluids in a day, especially if you are pregnant.
If you are pregnant, your body will look normal until you are about 4 months along.

Check out this link for symptoms and their descriptions:
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alisonmarie answered Wednesday April 18 2007, 12:04 pm:
Your urine changing odour is, in fact, a sign of pregnancy. It can also be a sign of an infection of some sort.

When is your period due? Your only real option is to wait and see if it comes - and if not, take a pregnancy test.

Pulling out is not an effective method of birth control. Why put yourself through the worry every month of wondering if your period will come? If you used birth control, your boyfriend would also not need to worry about pulling out. And as pulling out doesn't really work, condoms and a second form of protection are the safest idea.

Your body would not show signs of pregnancy this early, even if you were pregnant. For example, you wouldn't get a 'bump' until you were about four months pregnant.

Increased peeing is also a sign of pregnancy - but again, it could also be a symptom of a bladder infection. It might be smart to get checked out by your doctor, as if you've got on infection you want to get it treated sooner rather than later.

One last thing to consider - has yourself or your boyfriend had sexual contact with anyone else in the past? You may be at risk of passing on or contracting a disease or infection if so.

I hope everything works out for you.

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lbwhite89 answered Tuesday April 17 2007, 6:48 pm:
Well, the obvious thing to do if you don't want to get pregnant is to NOT have unprotected sex. Just that simple. It doesn't matter if he ejaculates inside you not. The "pulling out" method just plain doesn't work. His pre-cum contains sperm as well...and that DOES get inside you.

It doesn't sound a lot like pregnancy to me...maybe a bladder infection or urinary tract infection. You should see a doctor about it. You can also google your symptoms for more possibilities.

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