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i cant believe shes doing this
the relationship between my older brother and i is pretty big i like to say hes like my left hand but when it comes down to his wife thats another mess you see me and her dont get along well at all but what hurts me the most is that it never use to be this way we use to get along really great untill my brother introduced her to my cousin. nothing wrong with that except i never thought my cousin would go that low to make not only her but also my brother hate me all because of jelousy please help
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If I am understanding this correctly, your cousin has been saying things about you to your brother and his wife. This is causing them both to hate you, especially because you do not get on with his wife.
The first thing I suggest, if this is correct, is to ask your cousin what she has been saying to your brother and his wife. If she will not talk to you then ignore her and whatever she is saying.
Tell your brother that whatever he has heard about you is not true but you cannot defend yourself properly because you do not know exactly what has been said. It may be that your sister-in-law and you do not get along because you both love your brother very much and may appear to be competing for his affections. It will be hard for you to accept but your brother's wife will be more important to him that you are now. That is only natural - it does not mean that he loves you any less. Actions may speak louder than words in this case, try sending your sister-in-law a small posy of flowers or buy her a cake or ask her to meet you for coffee in town. Keep any conversations you may have light and away from any subjects that cause problems. Continue to keep in touch with your brother and his wife if only by sending the odd note to catch up on any news and to ask how they are. Over time things may get a lot better for you all but it may take some patience and hard work on your side. If you feel that your brother is worth the effort, then get to know his wife properly and appreciate her love for him too. I wish you all the very best with this problem.
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im really confused. Can you try rewording that?
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