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Big Crush
Ok, for starters, I am 20/M and a Junior in college. I have a big crush on this one girl in one of my classes, and it seems like we are both just super shy and neither of us can get the courage to talk to each other. She keeps looking my direction and I'm pretty sure she's looking at me. And I do the same thing, but both of us turn away right when the other turns to look at them (if that makes sense). So we're in this stupid standoff. This has been happening all semester. I'm finally ready to talk to her but she's graduating in a Month (beginning of May). I've been through a nasty long distance relationship before, and I know that if anything happens with this girl, it would be long distance for at least 6 months until I can graduate. Question is, should I actually go talk to her now? And why am I so shy about this? I mean I'm a fairly shy person in the first place but this is getting ridiculous. Sorry its so long, but thanks!
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you said you guys are in a class together, right? start a convo about the class, the teach, the homework, etc. Then maybe move on to meeting at a library, cafe, starbucks, etc to study. Something simple, but a way to start things slowly!
Hope that helps!
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A lot of people are in this situation. Just start as friends. Don't go too far ahead thinking about relationships quite yet. There must be some sort of mutual attraction. Unfortunately, she's probably waiting for you to make the right move. So, why not? Maybe start talking about the class & say hey want to hang out or whatever. Try to not be shy. One of you has to be outgoing for any relationship to work. You don't want to wait around either. Go for it. What's the worst that can happen? Rejection. I think that rejection is a lot better than doubt. You'll either know for sure or will have to wonder for the rest of your life if you would have had a chance with her. So, talk to her.
-hope that helped!♥
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