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how?... Wow ur such an amazing person your strong and your not insecure and how do you do it? I thought i was secure with myself til i read your column and your so strong and how can i be like you and not second guess myself? Wow your so awesome i cant even get over this. How did you get so...confidant?
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well thanks, im really flattered. Im not so sure HOW i do it, but i know that i have had my down times. But for one thing i have good friends and family that are really supportive, which is always a good thing, becasue then you feel good. And also not to bragg, but im really fit, and by doing that, i gained so much confident in myself, its like im not concieded[anymore] but im sure of myself becasue i kno i can look good, and if you need to stay fit, join and intense track team, itll make you really fit and people will admire you, which will boost you confidents. I know i second guess myself all the time, but sometimes i just go for it, and even if its bad i feel good that i tried and did my best.
but truthfully i dont know how im so confident. people tell me this all the time actually and ask me for advice[the reason i started the column] and i guess i was born with it, but the things above, well if i didnt have them or do them, i would be a nobody, ugly loser, who sits at home eating[[tho i do do that]].
confidents also comes when your in an inviornment you feel comfortable in, and that you love. i changed schools, and everyone has noticed a change becasue im just happy, which makes me feel good about myself. im also kind of a perfectionist, when it comes to some things, so im not all that perfect, but my confidents comes from happiness, which comes from what i said.
hope i helped
Lauren! ]
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