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moving away this is long but PLEASE reead it!
okay so theres this guy, steven. steven is really popular, smart REALLY smart but not in a have no social skills way he just is very studious, he is nice to everyone, and he has a hot body. he has only been living in SC for a year and is moving to COLORADO! i really love him but he just likes me as a friend. he knows i like him too. it started when we slow danced at a dance. well my friend asked him to ask me, he asked me and we danced it was the happiest moment ever! but i feel like he was just doing it to be nice and it made this boy robert REALLLY mad becsue he likes me. i want to stay in touch with him he is leaving at the end of the school year and i have already started crying and we're not even dating! i wish we were but he doesnt like me that way. our lockers are next to each other, we sit by each other twice a week in town meetings and he is in my homeroom and in 2 of my classes. hes everywhere. but he is so popular his friends are always all over him or hes with the teachers bc hes just so smart! i cant bear to let him be gone forever.
i want to still keep in contact with him when he leaves i was thinking give him my street address. im afraid he wont write to me and if he doesnt, i wont know his street address :[ he doesnt have im either! im so worried.
and i want to invite him out to lunch with me and my firends [as a group thing so its not akward for him] but how do i ask him if he wont give me a chance!
im so sad i have no idea what to do!
please give me answers! im so distressed.
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You had said hedoesn't give you a chance and I had just wanted to add sometimes you have to make your own chances. :) If he really is busy with people around him all the time just ask him politely if you can have a word with him alone for a minute. Then you can ask invite him. Just so it isn't awkward you may want to do this whist he is around teachers instead of a load of his friends.
As for keeping in touch just say you want to keep in touch and go from there, I'm sure you both can come to a way to make that happen but as for him not writing back to you - it's all about give and take. If you make the effort and he just doesn't bother then that will be his loss and not yours. Same goes for you asking to talk to him so you can invite him out with your friends. If you made the effort to go talk to him the least he can do is listen to what you have to say.
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If he doesn't have IM, give him your phone number & address & try to keep in touch that way. Or you can encourage him to get IM & maybe email/IM you.
When you talk to him one on one, just be like "Hey, me and my friends are having some lunch together, would you like to come?" and see what he says. I'm sure he won't turn you down to lunch. =) Good luck.
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If it is too embarassing for you to give him your address just trade email addresses. It would be so much easier for you to keep in contact. If that works dont send him those chain letters, those can get annoying.
Good luck
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