soo, im 17/f and started growing boobs in basically 5th or 6th grade, so its not like i just started. but they are SO uneven. and they ALWAYS have been. my mom says that they will eventually even out, but i've had them for over six years and they are still uneven, although bigger. my left is a B and my right is an A. i dont mind it that badly, except i have a bf and we just progressed to the whole "feeling up" stage. so far hes only felt the left, and i dont want him to realize that they are two different sizes. what should i do and are there any ways to make the other one grow? anything at all?
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Sexual Health and Reproduction category? Maybe give some free advice about: General Sex Questions? BitsandPieces answered Saturday April 14 2007, 10:17 pm: Besides it being more common than you think, the fact is that you will probably be the only one to notice. Your boyfriend is more likely to be thinking, "Oh my gawd, She is actually letting me touch her boobies!" and most guys are just so happy to be getting the action, that details all blur into one great rush of estactic eroticism. Don't ever bring this or any of your other self-criticisms to any guys attention. Women are the ones who pick people apart and men are more likely to see the whole picture and they either like you or they don't. He won't notice a pimple on your butt, the hair on your lip, the slight uneveness of your boob size or the cellulite on your thighs even a fraction as much as you will obsess about. If you don't point it out and convince him of these horrible abominations, he will blindly and generously see you as his beautiful goddess of love...which of course you are, so start acting like a woman in love with her body with all of its unique charm and that confidence will make you even more alluring. Sexy women are not perfect, they are confident. [ BitsandPieces's advice column | Ask BitsandPieces A Question ]
burningXstar answered Wednesday April 11 2007, 7:52 pm: Hey, unfortunatly there may be a chance that you may stay that way now. But many women develop very uneven chest sizes much more so then one size, so in a sense you are lucky! One option may be to consider going on the pill, as it is known to increase bust size, however both breasts may grow together and they may still not even out completely.
As for your boyfriend, if you do not feel comfortable telling your boyfriend about your chest beforehand maybe it might be a good idea to build nmore on your relationship in terms of trust and respect for each other before you progress any further physically, to make sure you both value and love each other enough to accept each others bodies the way they are :)
Hope I helped. x x [ burningXstar's advice column | Ask burningXstar A Question ]
xomegaroni answered Wednesday April 11 2007, 7:39 pm: No, you can't do anything. Unfortunately, a lot of girls are uneven & there's nothing they can do. Your mom is right though, they will even out eventually. I highly doubt your boyfriend will notice. If he makes a big deal out of it [which is unlikely because most guys wont notice/dont care] then he isn't the best boyfriend. He shouldn't care about that anyways.
turn-n-burn answered Wednesday April 11 2007, 7:38 pm: Well I dont think there is anything you can do to make your boob grow bigger that is probally just the way you will always be, and for your bf to care about the uneveness that should not matter to him if he truely likes you, I am uneven to I also know that there are alot of girls like that aswell so I do not think it is something you really need to worry about. [ turn-n-burn's advice column | Ask turn-n-burn A Question ]
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