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lately everything has changed for the worst
lately,my best friend and i arent as close as we used to be.we talk and everything but it just feels like something is different.i used to be able to tell her everything without thinking twice about it but now i do have to think twice because if i bring up say my b/f she will be like oh my god do you have to be always talk about him and i might just say his name.she has no b/f so that could be it but i cant talk to her like i used to about anything.i might ring her just to see how she was and it would be like what do want in a really mean voice.
i rang her today because i was really upset because my granny was rushed up to hospital and im very close to my granny.she sounded like she didnt care and just giving me the impression like is that all i rang her?why did i ring her?and if i acted that way to her on the phone she would get really pisst of with me.
i just feel like we cant talk anymore and i feel like we arent the best of friends we used to be.what should i do?i tried talking to her about it but she wouldnt listen.please give me some advice im really stressed out about the whole thing.xxaoifexxx
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Do you know if your friend's been having problems lately too? If she's got a big problem like depression or a family issue it's possible she's just pushing everybody away. I'm not saying that what she's doing is right, but you might want to ask her what's going on in her life right now, too.
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Your best friend sounds unhappy and the whole boyfriend thing has something to do with it.
All i can tell you is to talk to her.
Explain to her everything about how you feel because thats not fair how she acted.
She should be there for you.
and im sorry about your granny i hope shes alright.
but anyway just call her up again or have her over for just you and her time.
talk about it
and im sure everything will be fine.
-sky-
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the boyfriend thing kinda had a help in me and my best friend not being friends. she might just feel unloved((?)) that you have a b/f and she doesnt. that just might be it, i dont know about you, but i talked about my boyfriend all the time and well i know she got sick of it, so i stop, so maybe try that?. and since you tryed talking to her, then try again, tell her how you feel, even if it seems like she doesnt care, that way she can still know, you know?. i hope you guys can become friends again. hope i helped<3
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