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wow...
um. okay well i used to be friends with these four
girls & this one guy & we were like best friends &
we had a group name.
& the guy left us cause one of the four girls had
a crush on him & he started hating all of us.
so like we screwed him. but then, the other four
girls started hanging out... without me & made a
new stupid group name which is even more homo
than the first one...
i am friends with two of the girls, but the other two
are just plain weird now. like i don't want to talk
to them. should i ask the two girls what's going on
and why they made a new group without me? or
just leave then & let them do what they want?
if you were me, would you care? would you be
mad? let me lay it out
girl one - used to be my BEST friend, but ditched me & became bff with girl two.
girl two - used to be my 2nd bff, but became bff with girl one.
girls three & four are still my friends. should i ask either girl three or four what's going on?
thanks! i just need some advice on how i'm handling the situation
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I dnt think that # 1 and #2 are really good friends. Becuz f they were they would still be friends with you. #3 and #4 soung good and maybe you should ask them what is upwith this whole thing. I am sorry that ur friends are like that and i hope that you have better friends in the future who are REAL freinds. :)
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hey, well i think that you should definately talk with either girl three or girl four. i would actually confront both of them. dont confront the two of them together tho, because then they wont form there own opinions and may copy each others answers. its always good to let your friends know how your feeling and how there actions are affecting you and how they may not even know that they are hurting you. if they just sort of laugh it off or blow you off, they arent worth it. sure, they might have been your best buds at one point, but if there not catering to your feelings now, there not worth it. join clubs or sports teams and get involved. that way you can meet other people with the same interests as you. have other friends or cousins or relatives introduce you to new people. dont be a sterotyper. just because someone dresses "prep" doesnt mean that you should rule them off as a "weirdo" and then just decide right of the bat that you wouldnt want to become close to them because of the way that they dress or act. who knows -- under there popped collars and abercrombie clothes, they might be very loyal and a good friend. also another not to do is to not become close with someone because other people might a) make fun of you or b) not like you because you hang out with that person. first of all, you shouldnt care about what others think of you. you should only care about what makes you happy and if being yourself is hell for everyone else, then so be it. also, those people that make fun of you or give you trouble for hanging out with a certain person, there snobs. you shoudlnt even give them your time or the time of day. good luck =].
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