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HELP!
my mum is really annoying me such as consistantly nagging on at me and because of this i am shouting back abuse at her! She has told loads of her friends and my neighbours and they dont treat me in the same way anymore and dont bother very much! If they so its " be nice to your parents" i am sick of it i dont no how to get my neighbours and parents friends to like me again? i no the obvious answer is to not be rude to my mum but its immpossible shes always nagging on at me ! HELP! XX
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I know I come off as sounding old and incredibly biased, but I was in your position a couple of years ago, and I've learned a lot since... (I'm 19 now)
You do have to be respectful to your mother. Your neighbours and her friends are entirely right in thinking you're not a nice kid, because your true colours are coming out when you deal with your mother.
It's kind of her job to nag at you. She's your mom. And what seems like nagging is actually a really important part of your upbringing; she's trying to help you become a successful adult.
So, the answer? Be nice to your mom. Apologize to her for the verbal abuse and shouting. Let her know that you're trying to live up to her expectations, but that you're still learning.
Appreciate it while you've got it, because when you're out on your own, there's nobody to tell you what to do or when.
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i know how you feel. It's sooo annoying. Well it's kind of odd for your mom to tell EVERYONE about it. I would just try to ignore her and drown out her voice.
As for your neighbors just be VERY nice to them. If i were you i would try to act like a little angel around them and be as nice as you possibly can!
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Well just try and not listen to your mother my mom is always doing the same thing and i told my mom right out that i dont like it when you tell all your friends everything about me and she has somewhat stoped. but its still really annoying and i understand that but i just dont listen to her half of the time and just agree with hereven if i dont really i just say she is right so she will shut up.
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I can`t stress this enough;
TALK TO HER.
Tell her how you feell...
yeah, i know that`s totally cliche, but it WORKS, trust me.
but don`t be all "hey MOM stfu, yer annoying me"
I mean be all, "Mom, look, i LOVE YOU TO DEATH, but you sometimes nag me a little too much, i know you care about me and stuff but i can srsly take care of myself and PLEASE, don`t bug me that much. i need some space"
Hope i helped!
Let me know what goes down!
<3L.
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