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my friend
~13/f~ im the kind of gothic rough girl and hes the kind of preppy nice guy.Im not sure how I like my friend bff or bf. Weve been really close friends for a long time then it started going to bffs. because I tell him more than my other bffs and he tells me a lot and were always there for each other. But then we flirt so much. people think or say were dating or should but were not. He knows I liked him I know he liked me but I have no idea now. I went to a paintball party. at the party my team was my 5 bffs 3 of their bfs and him. we flirt so much that’s what im so confused about. He was showing off and when we separated he was looking for me? hes just really too nice. Is that what it should be like. we used to be i guess rough to eachother but now hes just nicey nice.But now hes been wearing a lot of black and deppressed. Does that mean something. But then we do joke or do shoot each other on purpose. he was talking to my other friend about something ‘top secret’. later on she started truth or dare. I kept doing truths I was just to nervous. I knew it was a setup. He asked truth to me if id ever take a dare. Then my bff asked truth to me if I liked him then truth to him if he liked me we both i said no then he said no. I regret it. Everyone already knew we liked eachother anyway but im just not sure if I like him bf or bff? And ive never kissed or been kissed. That’s what it was supposed to be...us kissing. I thought wed start taking it longer than just a ‘dare’ kiss. I like him as a bf then bff then bf then bff I just am not sure whats wrong. Hes all I think and write about. i really need help soon. we tell each other a lot of stuff and we both knew or thought before the party that we liked each other because we told eachother. my life is very messed up now and always has been i hate my life.
how do you think I like him as a boyfriend(bf) or best friend(bff). How do you think he likes me? What should we do? How do you kiss? How could i tell my mom?
this happened like 8 days ago we still havent talked exept saying hi were bffs. what should i do? im soo confused
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I think you like him as a boyfriend. You've been close friends a while, and now you're best friends. You talk to him more than you do your other friends, and he knows you like him.
I think he likes you as more than a friend. He talks to your other friends about top secret things, makes them set stuff up, he flirts with you non stop, he was showing off, and looking for you non stop when you guys seperated.
If you like each other, go out. People already think you are, and are telling you that you should be if you're not. If you like him, and he likes you, then do something about it, and start going out.
Kissing comes naturally, and it's nothing to worry about. When it happens, it'll flow & you'll realize there was nothing to stress over.
Just sit your mom down & talk to her about it. If your mother loves you [as she should since you're her kid], she'll understand and she'll be there for you. If she doesn't, then try talking to her some more. Also, when you talk to her, don't throw a fit, or get an attitude. It'll be harder for her answer or her thoughts to be positive, and an argument will most likely break out. Good luck. =)
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