So there's this guy, Mike. And he's been my lab partner for this whole school year, and we have always been friendly in lab but we never talked in any other classes. Well then he was on my volleyball team in gym, and we talked a lot during gym, and he's really nice. And now i have feelings for him. I want him to ask me out, but i dont know how to get him to want to, or to like me. And to make matters worse my friend just met him, and now she likes him, and she's telling me he's hers! What can I do?
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? kitzykat answered Monday April 9 2007, 1:04 pm: girl you have to, must act quickly. maybe this is evil, but you had eyes for him frst. Now that your friend has seen him, you have to ask him out first. There is no longer anytime for waiting. If you wait, he might ask her out. He ain't hers till he asks her out, or vise versa. you can't afford to wait. you can do it.Just casually ask him if he's interested in any movies that are out now. When he names them, pick the one you like best to and say "OMG, i've wanted to see that movie for ever! Hey, why don't we go together, this weekend? I'll buy snacks, if you pay for the tickets" But try to keep your friend. He's so NOT worth losing a friendship over. No guy is. Remember, YOU have to act first, YOU have to make the first move. and you can do it.! you go girl! so, are you gonna ask him? btw, thx for the rate. mail my inbox [ kitzykat's advice column | Ask kitzykat A Question ]
christina answered Sunday April 8 2007, 12:11 am: Just keep talking to him, and hang out with him outside of school. Get to know him some more & when you feel like the time is right, ask him out.
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